Explore how the 5 Levels of Transformation impact change and leadership in this months Emotionally Healthy Leadership podcast with Pete Scazzero and Rich Villodas. This 13 minute conversation examines learning and the slow process of personal transformation and transforming church culture. Click the image below to watch on YouTube or click to listen to the podcast on iTunes.
Take a few minutes to meditate on this lovely poem by William Stafford (1914ā1993). It lays out the indispensable foundation for both the Christian life and great leadership. The Way It Is Thereās a thread you follow. It goes amongthings that change. But it doesnāt change.People wonder about what you are pursuing.You have to explain about the thread.But it is hard for others to see.While you hold it you canāt get lost.Tragedies happen; people get hurtor die; and you suffer and get old.Nothing you do can stop timeās unfolding.You donāt ever let go of the thread.
Take a few minutes to meditate on this lovely poem by William Stafford (1914ā1993). It lays out the indispensable foundation for both the Christian life and great leadership. The Way It Is Thereās a thread you follow. It goes among things that change. But it doesnāt change. People wonder about what you are pursuing. You have to explain about the thread. But it is hard for others to see. While you hold it you canāt get lost. Tragedies happen; people get hurt or die; and you suffer and get old. Nothing you do can stop timeās unfolding. You donāt ever let go of the thread.
A pastor friend of mine shared over dinner that, a number of years ago, his son had committed suicide. He talked openly his loss and the way it had changed him. He recommended Grieving a Suicide, by Albert Y. Hsu where Hsu talks about his father’s suicide and that of many others – Christian and non-Christians. While I have written about a theology of grief and loss, God used this book to enlarge my own heart and challenge me to enter into this very different world. Approximately a million people around the world kill themselves each year. Every suicide leaves behind at least six survivors, sometimes ten or more. Their level of stress is ranked by the APA as “catastrophic — equivalent to that of a concentration camp experience.” A spirituality of suffering, grief, and loss is untidy – bottomless. I found, however, this quote by Walter Wangerin a helpful summary of Hsu’s reflections::. Read more.
Ā Ā I just completed an Updated/Expanded version of The Emotionally Healthy Church that is to be released in February, 2010. So this led me to quite a bit of reflection on what is the process for pastors and leaders to engage EHS, especially now that 30+ churches (as of last spring) have finished the Church-wide initiative. Ā 1.Ā Ā Ā Ā Begin the Journey Ā Ā The most important thing we can do is to engage the message in our own lives, and to apply personally the powerful biblical themes explored in this book. Begin reading Emotionally Healthy Spirituality (Nelson, 2006) and/or The Emotionally Healthy Church (Zondervan, 2003 and 2010).Ā Remember, we lead out of who we are. Ā Ā Ā 2.Ā Ā Ā Ā Introduce to Leadership (EHS in Small Group) Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Gather a small group of your key leaders around The Emotionally Healthy Spirituality Workbook (Willow Creek Publishing, 2009) and begin providing an experience for your leaders to āgo beneath the tip-of-the-icebergā in. Read more.
Geri and I have been leading a research and development small group on emotionally healthy skills (or practices) that we have been writing for the past year. So we invited 15 people, singles and marrieds, from a variety of ethnic and age groups to gather in our basement and be our “guinea pigs” Last Sunday we did our 12th practice (triggers that cause us to react immaturely rather than pausing in order to maturely respond). The power of this small group and transformationĀ continues to bothĀ astound me andĀ raise theological/pastoral issues for me.Ā Ā Every time Geri and I lead one of these experiential skill groups, people truly are changed – deeply. What is it? We also did a pre-conference on emotionally healthy skills at our pastors/leaders conference last week and that too was very impactful for them. Ā A former rabbi once told me sermons are like dropping a drop of water from the Empire State Building and. Read more.
