As part of our month-long celebration around my transition, we invited Gordon MacDonald, one of my long-term mentors to speak at New Life this past weekend. He is now 74 years old. Among the many gifts he offered out of his 50 years of pastoral leadership, were his reflections that a deep, healthy church includes people in every stage of life. Every decade, he argued, has a question. Teens-Who am I and who am I becoming? 20âs-What am I going to do with my life and with whom? 30âs-Now that I have all these responsibilities and obligations, how do I manage all these priorities? 40âsâAm I a success or a failure? 50âs âAs I move into the second half of life, who is this younger generation that wants me out of the way and how do I cope with the disappointments in my life? 60âs-How much longer can I do what defines me or. Read more.