I will quit doing for others what they can and should do for themselves. I will stop perpetuating their immaturity or my false sense of indispensiblity. When tempted to overfunction I will ask, âwhy do I want to do this?â I will use my extra time to think about my lifeâs goals.
I will become brutally honest with MYSELF first. I will admit what I am really thinking, really feeling, and what I really want. I will declare my truth to others, not fearing what they think, because it is a gift to be told the truth. That truth can be as simple as âI donât want to eat at that restaurantâ or âI donât want to see that movieâ, or it can be as big as â I am afraid of your reactionâ or âI was deeply hurt that you did not callâ or âI lied to you.â
Stopping 3-4 times a day and cultivating rhythms to be with God each day out of which we serve Him is foundational to our staff life at New Life. The following is Geri’s midday prayer handout that she led the staff through this past Wednesday. Savor it before the Lord during one of your Offices (pauses) during the day. There are actually five movements of Lectio Divina: SilentioâPreparing to be read by God. Lectio â Ingesting the Word Meditatio â Wrestling with God Oratio âLetting God know how we feel Contemplatio â Abandoning ourselves to God in love Incarnatio â The Word becoming flesh in us. Lets now, together do each of these overlapping phases togetherSilentio 1 min. Lectio â Ingesting the Word My heart is not proud, Lord,â¨my eyes are not haughty;â¨I do not concern myself with great mattersâ¨or things too wonderful for me. But I have calmed myself and quieted my ambitions.â¨. Read more.
We (Geri and Pete) recently watched a movie that we have talked about for days â Temple Grandin. The movie describes her life as an autistic young girl who courageously overcomes the limitations and severe challenges of life with autism in the 1960âs when so little was understood about it. She goes on to high school and college, and today is a professor at Colorado State University. Through the telling of her life with autism, Temple gives to the world numerous gifts. Two of those gifts, in particular, resonated deeply with two of our foundational spiritual practices. 1.We Each Need a âSqueeze Machine.â Temple created this âhug boxâ or âsqueeze machineâ to help calm her down as a hypersensitive, autistic person when overwhelmed. We too know what it is like to have our nervous system overloaded by the crisis of life. Every one of us needs a means to calm us down and to. Read more.
